Panthers Upset Rams, Colts Lose a Big One, and Lane Kiffin goes to LSU

Panthers Upset Rams, Colts Lose a Big One, and Lane Kiffin goes to LSU

NFL Week 13: Panthers Upset Rams, Colts Lose a Big One, and Lane Kiffin Goes to LSU

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Performance Strategies to be a Blue Head Under Pressure

Performance Strategies to be a Blue Head Under Pressure

On this episode, Anne and I discuss strategies that can be used for handling pressure, especially during athletic competitions. We use Chapter Nine titled “Pressure” from James Kerr’s book titled Legacy: What the All Blacks Can Teach Us About The Business of Life.

Performance Strategies to be a Blue Head Under Pressure

Here are some of the things Anne and I discuss on this episode:

  1. What does it mean to control your attention? Do we really get to pick what we think about?
  2. When do we feel pressure in our everyday lives? How do we handle it?
  3. There is a story of a blown lead for New Zealand’s National Rugby Team. It’s a team that won the 1987, 2011, and 2015 World Cups and has a 76% winning percentage. The team is often mentioned as one of the greatest teams of any sport.
  4. Can you think of any big sports chokes? Can you remember any times you have choked?
  5. What do we think are the most pressurized moments in sports?

Be a Blue Head and Not a Red Head under pressure:

  • Red Head: Tight, inhibited, results-oriented, anxious, aggressive, over-compensating, desperate.
  • Blue Head: Loose, expressive, in the moment, calm, clear, accurate, on task.

The Trigger Section:

  • Auditory, Visual, and Kinesthetic triggers
  • What do they mean, anchor?
  • Maps such as a schematic (diagram), words, phrases, or mantras
  • The Rule of Three for example Assess, Adjust, Act or Aviate, Navigate, Communicate.
  • Clear Thought, Clear Talk, Clear Task

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Grace, Jesus, and Parenting in Flannery O’Conner’s story “A Good Man is Hard to Find”

Flannery O’Connor’s story “A Good Man is Hard to Find” has a family road trip, a supremely annoying grandmother, and a terrifying encounter with the philosophical serial killer, The Misfit.

Did you think The Misfit was literally the Grandmother’s son? Does it matter? We would love to hear from you on that one.

Flannery O’Connor’s story “A Good Man is Hard to Find” has a family road trip, a supremely annoying grandmother, and a terrifying encounter with the philosophical serial killer, The Misfit. If you’ve ever been haunted by the final pages or wondered what O’Connor was really trying to say about faith and family, this episode is for you.


What We Tangle With in This Episode

  • Christianity and the The Story’s Climax: Is this story trying to tell us something essential about Christianity? We look closely at the fates of the Grandmother and The Misfit and ask: what do their terrifying final moments suggest about O’Connor’s views on grace and redemption?
  • The Misfit’s Proclamation: We try to unpack arguably the story’s most quoted and disturbing line: what does The Misfit mean when he says the Grandmother “would have been a good woman… if there had been somebody there to shoot her every minute of her life”?
  • Defining Southern Gothic: We explore how O’Connor uses the grotesque, the religious, and the darkly comedic to define this unique regional style.
  • The Significance of Names: Anne and I dig into the names, especially the bratty, unforgettable children: June Star, and the heavily symbolic John Wesley (named after the founder of Methodism).
  • The Grandmother, Ourselves, and Parenting: We break down the Grandmother’s character—her superficiality, her nostalgia, and her capacity for a fleeting moment of true grace. This led us to a discussion of our own grandmothers, and the difficult topic of parenting in the face of the children’s behavior in the story.

Literary Context

  • The Misfit and Anton Chigurh: We drew a parallel between The Misfit and other cold, philosophical villains, notably Anton Chigurh from Cormac McCarthy’s No Country for Old Men.
  • Sufjan Stevens’s Song: Did you know musician Sufjan Stevens wrote a song titled “A Good Man Is Hard to Find” for his album Seven Swans? We discuss how it’s told from the villain’s perspective, further showing the Misfit’s cultural grip.
  • O’Connor’s Background: We touched on the life of Flannery O’Connor, a Southern Catholic who died young at 39 from lupus (like her father). Knowing her intense faith informs the brutal spiritual clarity she brings to the page.

Come ride along with us as we discuss the ultimately deadly back roads of Flannery O’Connor’s dark genius.

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Weapons is more than a Horror Film

Weapons is more than a horror film—it’s a brutal, mind-bending puzzle box of trauma. In this episode, Anne and I dive into why Weapons is so much more than a horror film. We break down its ambitious, non-linear structure, where every chapter forces us to watch the same terrifying events from a different character’s perspective. We discuss the supernatural elements, like how Aunt Gladys’s sinister witch magic works.

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Zach Cregger’s follow-up film to Barbarian isn’t just a movie about 17 missing third graders—it’s a brutal, mind-bending puzzle box of trauma. In this episode, Anne and I dive into why Weapons is so much more than a horror film. We break down its ambitious, non-linear structure, where every chapter forces us to watch the same terrifying events from a different character’s perspective. We discuss the supernatural elements, like how Aunt Gladys’s sinister witch magic works. Ultimately, this film uses the horror genre to explore deep social issues, functioning as a powerful, unforgettable allegory for addiction and the weaponization of human grief. Tune in as we try to piece together every overlapping storyline and unpack the questions the film intentionally leaves unanswered.

🧩 The Non-Linear Narrative: An Emotional Earthquake

The most distinct element of Weapons is its chapter-based structure, which follows six main characters whose lives all intersect in the chaotic aftermath of the children’s disappearance. While many films use this device (like Pulp Fiction), Weapons uses the structure to continuously recontextualize key moments.

We keep watching the same stretch of time—the 30 days following the vanished students—over and over again, but from a new viewpoint. Each chapter, titled with a character’s name: Justine, Archer, Paul, James, Marcus, and Alex, peels back a layer of the mystery. An innocuous wave from Justine the teacher to Paul the cop in one chapter is revealed in another to be a moment of painful, complicated history between former lovers. This structural choice brilliantly mirrors grief itself: it’s messy, confusing, and only reveals its whole shape over time.

For me, the realization that director Zach Cregger wrote this film without a clear ending in mind for a long time only deepens my appreciation. He was simply following the threads of his characters, which resulted in a story that feels organically discovered, not rigidly engineered.


🔮 The Mechanics of the Supernatural

The introduction of the supernatural is a subtle shift, not a sudden break. The mystery transitions into horror when we meet Aunt Gladys (Amy Madigan), who appears in the fifth chapter, Marcus’s, but is hinted at much earlier in Archer’s terrifying dream and even the little girl’s narration.

Gladys is not just a witch; she is a malignant parasite. Her magic is a specific, ritualistic form of control that literally “weaponizes” people:

  • The Components: Gladys uses a personal item from her victim (hair, a ribbon), a sharp branch from her mystic tree, and drops of her own blood and saliva.
  • The Trigger: A tiny bell engraved with an inverted triangle and the number 6 is rung to complete the spell, sending the victim into a trance-like state.
  • The Effect: The victim, like Marcus, becomes a “heat-seeking missile,” compelled to carry out violence without feeling pain.

The ultimate twist, of course, comes in the final chapter when Alex, the sole surviving child, uses the witch’s own magic against her. He essentially turns the entire town, including the missing children and the newly hypnotized adults, into a collective weapon aimed at Gladys, leading to a satisfyingly gruesome, yet still tragic, payoff.


💔 Character Studies in Trauma

The film’s structure allows us to deeply explore how different people cope with unimaginable loss, shining a light on their pre-existing wounds.

  • Justine Gandy (Julia Garner): The resilient, yet deeply flawed, teacher. She carries the guilt of the tragedy and is relentlessly persecuted—spray-painted with “WITCH” and harassed.
  • Archer Graff (Josh Brolin): The grieving father who turns his pain into action, meticulously mapping out the children’s last movements. He represents the rage and regret of loss, which we see most poignantly in his dream where he struggles to tell his son he loves him.
  • Paul Morgan (Alden Ehrenreich): The deeply troubled cop wrestling with his own addiction and an unhappy marriage. He’s the film’s best example of the destructive cycle of rage, which culminates in him using excessive force on James the addict and then recklessly unplugging his dashcam.
  • James (Austin Abrams): The homeless addict and burglar. He is the invisible man of the town—the one who sees the truth but is instantly dismissed.

📢 Social Issues Beneath the Surface

The film cleverly uses the supernatural horror as a wrapper for raw, difficult social commentary.

  • Addiction as a Parasite: The scene where Marcus is watching a documentary on parasites that hijack their hosts perfectly summarizes the witch’s effect.
  • The Scapegoat Mentality: Justine Gandy, with her history of drinking and eccentric behavior, becomes the instant, irrational scapegoat for the entire town’s fear. It’s easier for the community to blame the marginalized teacher than accept the unfathomable.
  • Gun violence: a giant assault rifle appears above a house with the time 2:17 on it, the time the children disappeared. A whole classroom of children has disappeared in this film, not unlike communities where tragedy happens and children are suddenly gone.

Ultimately, Weapons doesn’t neatly wrap up all its plots. It leaves us with the ambiguity of the little girl narrator—”some of them even started talking last year”—reminding us that the road to recovery from this kind of collective trauma is long and incomplete. It’s a messy film about messy, ongoing grief.

I made a list of SCARY or HALLOWEEN-THEMED movies (with one tv show) and asked Anne what she wanted to watch. Here’s the list from which Anne choose Weapons.

  1. Psycho 
  • starring Anthony Perkins, directed by Hitchcock
  1. Weapons 
  • starring Julia Garner and Josh Brolin, directed by Zach Cregger
  1. Secret Window 
  • starring Johnny Depp Stephen, John Turturro and based on a Stephen King story,  
  1. The Cabin in the Woods
  • Starring Chris Hemsworth, directed by Drew Goddard 
  1. 1408 
  • Starring John Cusack, directed by Mikael Hafstrom
  • Based on Stephen King story 
  1. It’s the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown
  • Peter Robbins is the voice of Charlie Brown, third Peanuts television special ever produced 
  1. A Quiet Place
  • Starring Emily Blunt and John Krasinski
  1. The Ring
  • Starring Naomi Watts, directed by Gore Verbinkski
  1. Zombieland 
  • Starring Woody Harrelson and Emma Stone with a cameo from Bill Murray.

Who Can Get Better the Longest? Broncos Historic Comeback, Giants Blow It, Dodgers and NBA Season Futures

This week, we dive deep into NFL Week 7, including one of the most unbelievable upsets of the season. We break down the Denver Broncos’ historic 19-point comeback to stun the Giants, examine if Joe Flacco and the Bengals are truly “back,” and look at why the Rams are solidifying their place as a strong NFC contender. Plus, Anne and I will go over our NFL power rankings where there was lots of movement among teams.

We also shift gears to the hardwood as the NBA season tips off, sharing some early NBA futures bets on the Sixers, Pacers, and Nuggets. And finally, Anne shares her excitement about Dodgers star Shohei Ohtani’s big game—because you know she always has to brag about her team!

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Welcome to the Torg Stories Podcast! This week, we dive deep into NFL Week 7, including one of the most unbelievable upsets of the season. We break down the Denver Broncos’ historic 19-point comeback to stun the Giants, examine if Joe Flacco and the Bengals are truly “back,” and look at why the Rams are solidifying their place as a strong NFC contender. Plus, Anne and I will go over our NFL power rankings where there was lots of movement among teams.

We also shift gears to the hardwood as the NBA season tips off, sharing some early NBA futures bets on the Sixers, Pacers, and Nuggets. And finally, Anne shares her excitement about Dodgers star Shohei Ohtani’s big game—because you know she always has to brag about her team!

But first Anne, your favorite part of the podcast. The thought of the day: 

Who can get better the longest? 

Greg Olsen, 3x NFL Pro Bowler + Middle School Football Coach
  • Anne this comes from Greg Olsen. Anne, he used to play for the Panthers. Do you remember him? 
  • 3x Pro Bowl Selection. Played for the Bears, Panthers, and Seahawks. Played for Miami. All ACC in 2006. 
  • He works for Fox Sports as an announcer. 
  • And, he is a middle school coach at Charlotte Christian with two other former NFL players, Luke Kuechly, Jonathan Stewart, former Penn State quarterback Todd Blackledge, and Greg’s father Chris. 
  • He’s got a podcast called Youth Inc in which the podcasters unpack the biggest challenges facing kids, parents, and coaches. 
  • It’s a quote about putting enough into the day that there is improvement and about doing that consistently over time. 

BillTorg NFL Week 7 Power Rankings Looking at Best Wins: 

  1. Tampa Bay Buccaneers 5-1. (1st NFC South)
  •  Beat Falcons, Seahawks, and Niners for best wins. 
  • Mayfield 4th in passing yards. 4th in TD passes. 
  1. Colts 6-1. Best Record in the American Conference and 2 games up on the Jaguars.
  • One of three teams with only 1 loss. (Buccaneers and Packers) 
  • Chargers and Broncos are their best wins. Meh.  
  • Lead the league in scoring 32.3 ppg 
  • Taylor leads league with 8 rushing TDs. 
  • Colts 3rd best turnover differential
  1. Patriots 5-2.  First place one win ahead of the Bills in the AFC East.
  • Won four in a row including at Buffalo. Loss to the Raiders on opening day doesn’t look good but that was a long time ago. 
  • Drake Maybe 4th in passer rating. 
  • 2nd in completion percentage 
  1. Philadelphia Eagles 5-2. First Place NFC East
  • Beat the Buccaneers in Tampa 31-25. Beat KC in KC. Beat the Rams. Those are great wins. 
  1. Kansas City Chiefs 4-3.  1 win back of the Broncos in the AFC West
  • Lost a close one to the Eagles. Beat the Lions and then blew out the Raiders. 
  1. 49ers 5-2 Tied with Rams 1st NFC West.
  • Beat Seahawks, at the Rams, and lost to Buccaneers. 
  • Mac Jones leads the league in passing yards per game. 
  1. Rams 5-2. Tied for first in NFC West.
  • Beat the Colts 27-20. 
  • Lost to Eagles and 49ers. 
  • Stafford leads the NFL in passing yards. 4th in TD passes. 
  1. Denver Broncos 5-2. First Place AFC West.
  • Beat the Eagles and did everything but beat the Colts. Other loss was to the Chargers. 
  1. Packers 4-1-1. First Place NFC North
  • Beat the Lions and they tied at the Cowboys. 
  • Given up 3rd fewest yards 
  1. Buffalo Bills 4-2. 1 win back of the Pats AFC East.
  • Beat a lot of bad teams and lost two in a row. 
  • 2nd leading rushing team in nfl 
  1. Lions 4-2 and and can get one more win than the Packers (who have a tie) if they beat the Buccaneers tonight. (Mon Oct 20)
  • No quality wins and lost to the Chiefs. 
  • Goff leads league in passing TDs. 
  • 2nd most points in NFL.

Next week’s biggest games: (kind of a down week) 

  1. Buffalo at Carolina, just because it’s my hometown team and there are a lot of Bills fans down here. 
  2. TN at Colts. Colts should be able to keep it going! 
  3. Green Bay at Pittsburgh on Sunday night. 

NBA Bets Placed: (will discuss #5 with Anne) 

  1. Sixers to win the division +650. (would mean they beat Knicks) 
  2. Indiana to make the playoffs +177
  3. Rockets to win 55+ games. +190
  4. Nuggets to win the western conference +410 (also rooting for KD on Rockets, Warrior old guy team) 
  5. Title: Nuggets are +700 and Sixers are +3300. $10 on the Sixers would win $330. 

Torg Pregame Bets for Sun, Oct 19th: 

  1. 3 way parlay with Chiefs over Raiders, Bears over Saints, and Pats over Titans. +114. Win 1-0. 
  2. Panthers to win by more than 2.5 over Jets +136. Win 2-0. 
  3. Dolphins moneyline over Browns +128. Lose Browns win. 2-1. 
  4. Eagles to win by more than 2.5 and Hurts to rush for 20 or more yards over the Vikings +126. Lose Hurts no rushing yards. 2-2. 
  5. Colts moneyline over Chargers +114. Win 3-2. 
  6. Parlay for Giants, Cowboys, and Packers to win. Giants lose and so do I. 3-3 on the day. 

Bets I still have for the season that look pretty good…

  1. Colts to make the playoffs +194. 
  2. Pats to win the division +830. 

Should we list our 5 scariest movies for next week and watch one to discuss? It will be October 26th next Sunday.

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